Discover How To Find Healing Through Forgiveness
In this post I want to address the power of healing through forgiveness…
And as you may already be aware, throughout this physical journey we need to remain grounded and cantered.
Which is the fertile ground that allows us to grow both physically and spiritually like the fertile soil required for a plant to grow.
When we hold onto lower frequency emotions such as anger and fear. This is like poisoning the soil that our spirit needs to grow from.
Finding forgiveness can feel very difficult, especially if someone has wronged you or has done something very intentionally abusive towards you.
You can reclaim your naturally inborn spiritual power to remove your energy blocks and access the freedom and graces that’s available to you.
Mistakes to avoid when it comes to spiritual forgiveness
You may want to be able to forgive others because for spiritual growth and many other benefits, but you first need to be able to love and forgive yourself.
Otherwise in the back of your mind, you may think that you deserve what people have done to you.
And how can you forgive someone if a part of you believes that you deserved it?
How spiritual seekers sabotage their ability to forgive
We’ve all experienced a time when we feel like someone disappointed or wronged us...
And if we are living in fear, or focused on lower frequency human emotions rather than focusing on what is true from our soul.
It can be very difficult to see what struggles or challenges the other person is facing, that caused them to do whatever they did.
In my experience, many spiritual seekers set very high standards for themselves.Such as being able to unconditionally love and forgive everyone, almost in an instant overnight.
Which are unrealistic expectations that can cause us to feel shameful or disappointed in ourselves. Even the Buddha didn’t become enlightened overnight.
How to start developing forgiveness from within
Know that it is ok to go ouch that hurts, to accept and experience the pain.
It also isn’t your fault and what you feel is a part of our human experience and our spiritual growth.
We may think in the back of our minds someone deserves for us to feel angry towards them and justify it on an ego level.
However, on a soul level as we reach higher frequencies.It becomes easier to be able to let go and find forgiveness naturally.
Just like when children play, trip over and fall they eventually learn and grow as a result, the same happens throughout our entire lives as we can continue to forgive and to grow.
How to avoid feeling guilty for not being able to forgive
Being able to authentically forgive from within can take a long time. So be compassionate, loving, and accepting of yourself just like you would with a close friend or loved one.
Allowing yourself the time necessary to be able to forgive when the time is right for you. And you will begin to feel forgiveness arises faster and naturally as a result.
Feeling guilt or shame for not being able to immediately forgive are rules set by the ego, not from spirit. And the last thing we want when we already feel hurt by someone is to further hurt and punish ourselves...
How To Forgive Through Spiritual Healing
Whether you’re looking to forgive someone for what they have done to you or what you have done to someone else.
People are doing the best they know in any situation.Even if what they do from an ego perspective is bad, if they knew any better they would do things better.
The same also applies to ourselves, whenever we have done something we regret or that has hurt someone we care about.
It is apart of our spiritual growth and journey.And if any of us had a higher perspective at the time we would all have done things differently, including those we feel had disappointed or hurt us in some way.
How to start forgiving people and yourself
Below are some different ways in which you can start authentically finding forgiveness from within:
- Remind yourself that you are loved and feel connected to God.
- Pray for grace and ask for grace to come into your life.
- Accept,be kind and allow yourself to feel how you truly feel without placing guilt or shame on yourself.
- Allow yourself to take the time necessary without having to rush.
- Pray for forgiveness and pray for the gift of forgiving.
How spirit guides can help us with forgiveness
When it comes to any form of spiritual healing we all have healer spirit guides that can assist us in accelerating the healing process.
However our guides for the majority of the time due to giving us the freedom of having free will. Will only come and help us if we call out and ask for it.
So if you ever struggle to love and accept yourself including your feelings, or being able to forgive someone else.
Either internally within your mind or out loud you can simply call out and ask for help just like you would ask a close friend.
And even if you don’t immediately sense or feel anything has changed, know that your spirit guides will still come and assist you.
How to align with authentic forgiveness reconnecting with divine love and light
Now if you haven’t done so already you can be more compassionate and loving towards yourself and know that it is ok to feel hurt and to experience your emotions.
Know that it is a learning experience on both a soul and human level. And you have the ability to forgive yourself and others and it's ok if it takes a long time.
Focus on reconnecting to love and light for yourself because you will find it will expand out to others.Also, you can always call upon your healing spirit guides to help along the way.
Wishing you Love and Light
Rick Khan co-founder and intuitive coach, channeller of divine messages and healing with the ultimate goal of helping people around the world wake up to this same inborn gift available to all.