How Do You Cut Cords With Someone And Release Emotional Attachments

If you find it difficult to emotionally move on or detach from anyone that is no longer serving you…

Then did you know you could have an energetic cord that is preventing you and potentially both of you from moving on.

Including someone holding onto anger or resentment towards you and maybe going out of their way to cause havoc in your life.

And here’s the thing…

This can cause problems in both how you feel and your external life situation.

That’s why it is crucial to cut cords from anyone you’ve had an emotional attachment with if they aren’t bringing high vibes into your life.

However, Don’t fret!

As I will be sharing THESE methods for cutting cords and powerful techniques for cutting cords from toxic relationships.

How Are energetic cords formed

Energetic cords are formed whenever there is a strong emotional bond or high exchanges of energy between two people.

This can be from lovers, friends, family, and even people you don’t get along with.

The stronger and more consistent the exchange of energy, the strong the energetic cord will be.

Psychics and clairvoyants often report seeing energy cords looking like cords of light that bond people together, which is where the name came from.

When should I cut cords

It can be difficult at times to know if a cord has been created.

Sometimes all it takes is one high-energy or emotionally intense experience, to create an energetic bond.

This can be a beautiful thing bringing you closer on both a physical and energetic level.

However, at times cords aren’t always beneficial especially if the person is an energy vampire and wants to drain your energy.

Signs and symptoms you need to cut an energetic cord

If you regularly experience any of the following signs or symptoms then it’s highly like you have an energetic cord to someone that should be cut.

  • Consistently thinking about someone which causes painful emotions.
  • Feeling low energy or drained.
  • Feelings of anger or resentment.
  • Feeling anxious.
  • Feelings of dependency for someone.
  • Feeling stuck or unable to make a decision.
  • Regularly becoming ill.

Techniques & Methods for cutting cords

The following are techniques and methods for cutting cords, many of them can be used to help cut the same cord, especially if it’s a strong cord and you’re finding it difficult to remove.

1. Smudging

Purifying your space will help to uplift your energy and remove negative energies keeping the cords attached.

Smudging is a good preparation for most spiritual practices especially if you suspect there are any low vibes in the area or hanging onto you.

2. Salt bath

Salt baths are a relaxing way of removing negative energies, and energetic blocks which will help balance your energy body.

This will also assist with naturally cutting any cords that are creating any imbalances.

3. Cord cutting affirmations

Affirmations are a powerful way of changing your state of consciousness and your energy to manifest change both internally and externally.

Try the following cord cutting affirmations:

“I am now energetically free, in harmony, and unbound to anything or anyone that no longer serves my highest good.”

“I (your name) now release and cut all cords, energetic ties that no longer uplifts and supports me.”

“Me and my space are now free of. and sever through all cords that don’t bring joy and harmony.”

4. Writing how you feel

Writing down how you truly feel is a simple yet powerful way of letting out your emotions and becoming more consciously aware of how you truly feel.

This will feel quite therapeutic making it much easier to release and let go of pent-up energy and emotions that are creating the cords in the first place.

5. Visualization

Visualize an energetic cord linking you and the person you want to release a cord from.

See either some scissors or an energetic sword cutting through this cord. Now see the person in question moving further and further off into the distance until you can no longer see them.

You may need to repeat this a few times if you don’t feel a change.

Cord cutting ritual for toxic relationships

Cutting cords from a toxic relationship can be very difficult.

Especially if the person you’re trying to remove an attachment from is actively trying to reconnect with you, or if they’re sending negative energy your way.

This is why I’d like to share this powerful ritual for those of you who need an immediate yet powerful method for cutting someone toxic out of your life.

This method is unique because it uses the incredible cleansing power of the violet flame.

Violet flame cord cutting ritual

At a time and in a location where you won’t be disturbed for at least 15-20 minutes.

Get comfortable and begin to take some deep breaths while focusing on your body, then exhale out through your mouth.

Repeat this until your body and mind begin to relax.

Now begin to see in front of you a beautiful violet flame.

As you continue to focus on this flame repeat the following violet flame decree.

“I AM scared violet fire
Ignited through me now
I AM sacred violet fire
With blessed healing power
I AM God’s bestowed light
Illuminating everyone
I AM the violet flame
Divine light in physical form
I AM the violet flame
Cleansed and purified.”
Repeat this until you feel the violet flame becoming intense and your energy uplifted."


Now see energy going out from yourself, through the fire that is connected to the person you want to remove any emotional attachments from.

See this cord melt and completely disappear within the flame.

Take a few moments to feel how free and uplifted you now feel, and then thank the violet flame for its assistance.

What to do after cutting cords

After you have cut cords, especially from a toxic relationship, your state of consciousness and energy body are now in an ideal state for raising your vibration.

If you found this useful and would like to experience more of the violet flame make sure to give this violet flame cleanse a try.

If you’d like to know how to raise your vibration so high to prevent negative energetic cords from being formed in the first place.

Then you may want to check out how to activate your light body with the violet flame.

With love

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